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What do I do? Many problems and stressed! I hate my parents!?
Ok here is my problem guys! I got laid off at work and rite now I have no job. I am married but my wife lives in the Philippines. I live with my parents for now because I don’t have the money to move out. I spent part of my day talking to my wife online and the other part of the day looking for jobs and other things. My wife, I think is pregnant but she is in denial. Her pregnancy test became positive but she thinks its nothing. My parents are being very rude to me about me not doing anything. I am starting to hate my parents. I have always felt like they never support me in anything. My dad is a total asshole and my mom is OCD. She always talks to me in a yelling voice. I am so stressed out right now cause I feel like nothing is going right. What do I do guys? Please help me! Before I’ve thought of suicide but not right now. My parents are one of the biggest factors of my stress. Ever since I was little I felt like they don’t really care about me.
sounds like my mother did when i was younger. i learned to deal with her verbal attacks and judgments by using these three statements. one of them always fit into whatever she was yelling or judging me about and will defuse the tension. they are:
1. “I am dong the best I can”. (Great for statements about your job hunting)
2. T”hat is your choice”. (great when mom would tell me I was making her angry.)
3. “That’s the way it is.” (great as a general defuser)
and please, if you are feeling suicidal, get professional help, no one on this planet is worth that.
you may also want to consider that your parents do really care about you but are frustated with your situation also.They are letting you stay in their house. they are only human. We all lack in some way.
good luck.
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